Remember, they are seeing you for some fun escapism, and don't want to be reminded about their spouse.
Brian Krebs, the blogger who first reported the breach, said the hackers were threatening to release all Ashley Madison's customer records if the website isn't shut down.
The hackers called themselves the "Impact Team," and the potential release includes "profiles with all the customers' secret sexual fantasies and matching credit card transactions, real names and addresses, and employee documents and emails." In a statement, Avid Life Media, the parent company, said: "At this time, we have been able to secure our sites, and close the unauthorized access points.
Many people would be shocked to learn the statistics regarding extra-marital dalliances.
So what is no strings dating with another married person like?
Dating between two married people is often surprisingly easy.
Both parties need to keep the affair secret, so both will respect that and there is little chance of being found out.
However, just make sure you don't get carried away - getting discovered is not a good look! It spices things up knowing that it's something known only between you and the other party.
Some people also get quite a thrill out of the sneaking around, as well as meeting in hotels.
So far, though, it isn't easy to find the exposed cheaters online.
That could change soon if the hackers decide to publish the information on a public website.
In this situation, some additional romance can be just what you need to enable you to keep the marriage functioning.