But it’s still almost always better to setup a date outside of her work environment.
You tell her that you like her and care so much about her.You promise you’ll treat her better than any other guy.You say stuff like, “You’re a really busy girl, huh?” You can claim you were just kidding, but the truth is that it’s usually coming from a place of insecurity or frustration.You might end up with a woman, but she’ll only be attracted to your financials.
Many women also feel pressured or manipulated by a guy who buys them things.It also makes her feel like she needs to reply more when texting is supposed to be light and fun. Maybe she’s been busy taking a shower and getting ready.So you sent a girl a message and now you keep checking your phone. Whatever the reason, it can come across intense for you to follow up when you didn’t get an immediate reply.During the early stages of dating, a girl doesn’t want to feel that you’re way more invested than she is. She wants you to see her as a person, not idealize her.And she wants to know — and not just because you’re desperate for a girlfriend.Now I’ve written before about how neediness is a state of mind and not necessarily your actions. But I would be naive to think that some behaviors didn’t still look “desperate”, even if they’re coming from a healthy place. If I like someone, I’m going to talk to them and not overthink it.