Many people with special needs are nonverbal or have difficulty with speech, which can make it difficult to communicate in one-on-one situations.Online messaging through a special needs dating website like Special Bridge can create open lines of communication that simply wouldn’t be possible any other way.Note: I wrote this post a year ago while I was still in the United States (and not traveling in South America), but realize that it should have been posted all along, so here it is!
I am simply pointing out that we have a consumer mentality when it comes to dating.Perhaps this is just the nature of dating, but I can’t help but believe that online dating, in the way it dramatically increases the possibilities for easily meeting someone new, makes us treat each other more disposably.I don’t claim to have all the answers, and frankly, I’m writing this final paragraph now after a year of traveling and distance from San Francisco.I’ve decided I don’t want to participate in online dating at all because of the consumer mentality that inevitably develops.But I’m open to hearing your ideas about how to lessen the brutality of the online dating game. Be sure to sign up for my mailing list and join me in Buenos Aires to learn about the quirkyalone approach to life and relationships through tango in the Quirky Tango Adventure.
How do you handle it if you go out with someone once and then decide it’s not a (potential) fit? Seeking companionship can be difficult for many adults, but for those with developmental disabilities, this can often be nearly impossible.While most people can turn to online social groups and dating sites, there are very few resources for men and women with autism, Down Syndrome, and developmental delays.We operate outside the constraints of a moral community of friends and family, and it’s so easy to disappear into the ether, only to cross each oher when you see each other “online now” on So imagine my surprise and satisfaction on a recent trip to New York City to hear people complain even more vociferously about the struggle of dating in their own city.(He was French.) Here’s a snapshot of what I heard. It’s easy to talk about one slice of New York and think you’re talking about all of it. The common theme in the complaints I heard in New York seemed to boil down to economics.