Interacting with Your Teens Supporting Their Growth Making Use of Resources Community Q&A The teenage years can be tough for parents.
As a single parent, you might struggle with how to effectively raise your teens. Learn to deal with your teenagers as a single parent by fostering a connection with them, helping them mature, and getting outside help.
There may be many of these organizations in your community such as Divorce Care, which is a recovery support groups for those dealing with the ramifications of a divorce. The best way to deal with the loneliness after a divorce or separation is to build a strong support group that may include family, friends, co-workers, other divorced individuals in your neighborhood and church members.
These individuals are often those who showed caring and support before your divorce or separation and will surround you with love and caring while you cope with your new life.
My now four-year-old son was six months old when a man – educated, urbane, older than I was – shouted at me: “If you didn’t want the child, you should have kept your knickers on.” I was coming out of, what both I and my son’s father would now agree, had become an impossibly difficult relationship.
It was a trying time for us both and we both received support from friends and family.
At first you may not even notice how lonely you are because of all the changes going on in your life.
If you have children, you will be kept busy helping them to cope with life without the other parent being around as much as before the divorce or separation.
Being a volunteer makes you feel good about yourself, boosts that ego that may have become bruised during the divorce or separation and will give you a more positive outlook on life in general.
Many organizations cater to those who have been divorced or separated and are wonderful support systems.
Once things settle down you will notice how lonely you have become since the divorce or separation.
You will feel starved for companionship, adult conversation, or just someone to do things with in the evenings or weekends.
A comment from one among my circle was probably meant as friendly advice: “Unfortunately,” he said – educated, urbane, younger than I was – “you have made things very difficult for yourself.” Both comments were referring to the fact that I was – am – a single mother.